whenever i put a snippet on my status or story, it is because i feel like it. but i also wouldn't mind "friends" giving their thoughts on it. "like i want to you to tell me what it made you feel. would it kill you to compliment, you already viewed it yes? except i don't matter much to you, do i?"
i love compliments, they add to the already established happiness i got from seeing something i imagined come alive. i don't think it's weak to desire to be complimented.
and about the hurt, it's unavoidable. I've learned how to mask my expressions so well that even when I'm being criticised, or spoken bad about, I'll be hurt and tell myself a thousand reasons why that happened, a thousand faults, but this person wouldn't know jack. i get you so well Chloe. and congratulations on 21 days and your coming birthday. your consistency is beautiful ❤️
against what you're familiar with though, desiring or acknowledging words of affirmation/appreciation isn't a thing of weakness or something that should be looked down upon. we’re born with consciences. sometimes, it's part of life's vitality and necessary too-unless it becomes to demeaning to self where you don't have an identity of your own but would rely on what other people's got to say, that's a problem. but for every now and then, it's not a bad idea to want to bask in the accolades of people.
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I feel so seeennn!
Thank you so much.💗
whenever i put a snippet on my status or story, it is because i feel like it. but i also wouldn't mind "friends" giving their thoughts on it. "like i want to you to tell me what it made you feel. would it kill you to compliment, you already viewed it yes? except i don't matter much to you, do i?"
i love compliments, they add to the already established happiness i got from seeing something i imagined come alive. i don't think it's weak to desire to be complimented.
and about the hurt, it's unavoidable. I've learned how to mask my expressions so well that even when I'm being criticised, or spoken bad about, I'll be hurt and tell myself a thousand reasons why that happened, a thousand faults, but this person wouldn't know jack. i get you so well Chloe. and congratulations on 21 days and your coming birthday. your consistency is beautiful ❤️
against what you're familiar with though, desiring or acknowledging words of affirmation/appreciation isn't a thing of weakness or something that should be looked down upon. we’re born with consciences. sometimes, it's part of life's vitality and necessary too-unless it becomes to demeaning to self where you don't have an identity of your own but would rely on what other people's got to say, that's a problem. but for every now and then, it's not a bad idea to want to bask in the accolades of people.